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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 4, 2003 16:41:06 GMT -5
OK two Post I will answer here.
I can not make a Judgment on your looks Lady since i have never seen you. but if you want my Opinion of you?
Well I think you have Social problems. Like to be a Loner. And such. Propably Not Instrested in going out Parting with me. Drink till we get the Spins. Then DOing it like Rabbits. Waking up late to Go kick it at the strip and DO some Gambling.
You Do not seem like a Fun out Going partier.
So regardless of your Looks You would be 0 fun o kick it with.
Once again why women who are fine and want to do things are the ones I am Instrested in.
Ask any real man.... he wants that Playboy Model to Let him do Body Shots off her Body
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Post by Merkuri on Nov 4, 2003 16:46:19 GMT -5
You're right, I don't like your kind of "Parting." But you've already gone back on the only-ugly-girls-don't-care-about-money theory, so I've made my point.
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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 4, 2003 16:57:24 GMT -5
How did I do that.
Cause I never said anything about your looks.
Sorry but I won't make a comment about you till I see you.
Far as I know you Could Be the Elphant Man's Sister
Are you model material? Do you have a big Nice Rack? Are you Skinny or over wieght? Are your teeth Crossed? DO you were Glasses? Are you Short? Are you Extremely tall?
All things that can make you ugly or Cute
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Post by Merkuri on Nov 4, 2003 17:03:48 GMT -5
You've admitted that you don't know if I'm ugly or not until you see me. I've told you that I don't care about money (or, I'm telling you now). Therefore, if a girl doesn't care about money she isn't necessarily ugly.
And we've hijacked this thread. I'm stopping here.
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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 4, 2003 17:10:45 GMT -5
Well Honey hate to bust your Bubble but if your not fine. I am Correct!
See You might say well I am not Ugly I am ordinary
Well that's a nice way of saying your not as UGLY as that Troll!
So tell me. Show me a PIC
Are you Ugly
If you are I am Right
If your are not then you win. But we need proof
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Post by Draxy on Nov 4, 2003 17:56:00 GMT -5
First Problem you Wifed Her. Second One You needed Chivirly to Sustain a relationship. Plus how many years ago was that. My Statement is Baised in the here and Now Maybe we the Beave was on TV Chivarly Worked well but not now Charlie Boy, you just don't pay attention. It wasn't chivalry that opened that door, but rather it was simple civility, treating another human being in the same way that you would want to be treated. There is a world of difference between the two. As to when, it was right in around 20 years ago, so "Leave it to Beaver" had been off the air for more than 20 years itself except in syndication. So, what's the here and now? Last week? Yesterday? Thirty seconds ago? There hasn't been that much cultural change in the time frame this descends from; and certainly not in that area. Pimpin's been around as a (in my opinion, pathetic) visible and recognizable lifestyle for more than three decades now. It stank to high heaven then, and does so now to for my money. It is simply the lazy route for a putatative man to use coercion and threat of violence to try to dominate someone physicly smaller. Yow, that's something to make ya proud. Draxy
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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 4, 2003 18:15:49 GMT -5
Hey sometime People need to be slapped Draxy.
but a true Pimp only needs His game and no Violence.
You would be suprised what you can make a WOmen( Anyone for that matter) By Playin with their Emotions.
As for PIMPin PIMPin has been around long then three decades man. hell it's the First Business! And the best there ever was.
As for your 20 years ago marrage. That was a Long time ago. Since then Women have started making equal Wage. Cloths have gotten better. Hair isn't so Big A lot has Change!
But PIMPin is always there and Strong
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Post by Draxy on Nov 4, 2003 18:39:37 GMT -5
Like I said Charlie, you don't pay attention. I said it has been around as Pimpin', the lifestyle that has been developed most recognizably in the US inner cities (in the manner of your avatars for instance... who looks like a white version of "Huggy Bear") for three decades.
Too, it's prostitution, not Pimpin', that is called the worlds second oldest profession. That though is inaccurate as well, as even prostitution wouldn't fit into the top hundred oldest professions. There weren't enough sizable communities for it to be possible until about ten thousand to twelve thousand years ago to make even it, the far older of the two professions, a viable one.
Nor is Playin' their Emotions completely possible without the threat (not neccesarily the actuality) of violence. The major emotion played upon is such a interchange is fear and it always devolves back to, what anthro-psychologists call, "the threat of the stick".
Even if YOU never use violence, identifying yourself with a sub-culture that glories in it paints you with that same violent brush, so to speak.
Hey man, dominance and submission games may be as old as mankind, in fact we both know that they are, but that doesn't give them any kind of inherent value. They all play on the fear and I have little respect for any person who relies on fear to get what they want.
Is it effective? Yes, sometimes. Sometimes it gets the Player's ass handed to him too though.
Is civility or even chivalry sometimes effective. Yes, but it rarely gets the civil persons or the chivalrics ass handed to him though.
Draxy
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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 4, 2003 20:11:04 GMT -5
You know I gave some great Quotes that always Ring in my head.
Personally I would rather be Feared then Loved.
As for the threat the Only threat I need. Is you won't be Hoing for me anymore.
True some PIMPS are Low down Dirty SOB's but hey Someone had to do it.
me I have elvated myself above that.
Now I could give a Flying F*** Wiether I impress you. For a Couple of reasons 1. Your not important. 2. Dude your a Dude I meat on a Fourm online 3. Your not making me money 4. Your not marketable to make me money 5. Your a Loser (Just Playing on that one But Had to say it for Fun) 6. Your no threat to me or anything I do!
So hence the reason that caring what you think or your actions Well that's all in all worthless
nwo for handing my ass to me. yeah I've had that Happened. Been in some things I shouldn't have. But it happens. At least I am here.
nwo for Civility Not getting your Ass ahnded to you.
Open a Door for my Big Homie's Girlfriend. The Jealous bastard Will Break your Fingers And that's If you say sorry.
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Post by Hussar on Nov 4, 2003 22:28:42 GMT -5
*Play Nicely boys and girls. Don't make me turn this car around! Having both arms pulled off by a gorilla often offends. Just a gentle reminder before this thread goes off into the distance*
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Post by Lone Wolf on Nov 4, 2003 23:34:22 GMT -5
Chivalry still exists in the hearts of those who still can see another for what she is. Apresiated? Depends on the person... Existant? Depends on the person.
Chivalry is the code of a knight. To show Valor, Courage, Kindness to women, and Honor. There are people in the world who hold those four high above others and therefore Chivalry does exist... As to whether its apresiated? Drawing upon my knowledge as to the world around me... Most women are reverting back to the age were they liked to be treated delicatly and not to be looked upon... So in some cases its apresiated and others it isn't.
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Post by Ahnemesis on Nov 5, 2003 1:35:55 GMT -5
Chivalry does exist and it is appreciated. I like to be respected by a man. Call me old fashioned. But it is something I've had little of in my life and the times someone was chivilrous towards me it ment the world to me. I try to be kind to those around me, be they women or men, it makes no difference to me. Kindness goes a long way. Being treated like a dog hurts.
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Post by Draxy on Nov 5, 2003 7:09:49 GMT -5
Hussar, baby, stick your big ol' hairy arms back in the front seat. I surely don't think from his response that Chuckie's getting hot... I know I'm not, so flaming is just not going to get going here.
Chuckie, baby, it's all good. Atleast your honest enough to admit that it can backfire on occassion. Your response got me thinking that it HAS backfired on me once.
I used to run a Outreach program; food, clothes, sometimes money if we had spare cash laying about (rare as hen's teeth, but it did sometimes happen) to help out the homeless and the abused... which can be a hassle by itself, although I found it richly rewarding. But... I had a young lady of shady background who showed up one night with a nastied up nose and lips from getting the snot smacked out of her and ribs so sore she could hardly stand. Now I knew better, but she begged me not to call the cops and because of a stupid tendency to distrust the cops on grand general principles myself, I played it her way and was going to give her a lft to the walk in clinic a couple miles off because they might also not call the cops either.. just x-ray her and send her to a Women's Shelter.
I bet you see where this is going. We no sooner stepped out the front door than her "boyfriend" shows up, about 300lbs of beef on the hoof that about looks me eye to eye and I'm a big guy, and smacks her right in front of me.
I DO know better, but this "I can't stand by and see a woman get busted up" thing hits me (metaphoricly) smack between the eyes and when I grab his arm to pull him away from her... so does he... with no metaphor involved. I wasn't ready, I wasn't watching him like I should have been, like I know to do, and he about put my lights out.
Now, I'm two and a quarter worth body building former US Marine Jarhead and NO BODY smacks me betwixt the eyes and walks away, so I waltz him a bit and he ends up smacking his face on the hood of my car about ten or twelve times.
To make a long story short, to forestall any real nasty trouble with the local constabulary I got him calmed down and then ended up driving both of them to the clinic who, true to form, did NOT call the cops.
Thank God! My heroics would have been felonius battery at the least since I grabbed him first.
So, there are times when Chivalry can be a real first class pain in the nose bridge guys.
Now, would I do it again?
No. I learned. I would now call the cops the instant the girl comes in like that and let the as___le "boyfriend" cool his heels in the tank.
Draxy
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Post by CharleHu$$tle on Nov 5, 2003 13:13:30 GMT -5
*Play Nicely boys and girls. Don't make me turn this car around! Having both arms pulled off by a gorilla often offends. Just a gentle reminder before this thread goes off into the distance* Look Mommy the Babboon is going to show us a magic trick
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BookWyrm
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"I know I'm going to burn in hell, I'm bringing the marshmellows."
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Post by BookWyrm on Nov 18, 2003 23:33:30 GMT -5
After reading this thread exaustively, I wanted to make my observations. I am ready to take whatever critiques may come, but please remember that these are only one person's opinions & views, so you may ignore this whole diatribe.
At an early age, I was taught certain guidelines & actions that were considered 'chivalrous' in these times. Obviously, the concept of chivalry has been modified, adapted & evolved over the interveining centuries since the concept was first concieved of by Saladin (the medevial European knights only copied what they liked from his texts). These are some of the guide which I go by;
Hold a door open for someone (male or female doesn't matter), this is common courtesy.
Even if *you* don't smoke, provide a light for someone who smokes.
If someone does, give them the information they asked for ("Pardon me, What time is it?") accurately, or at least to the best of your ability.
Treat even your antagonist like an intelligent being. If they fail to display even the basic rudimentaries of common sense, it's not your place to teach them. People need to make their own mistakes. Whether they learn is not your problem.
Never pick a fight, but be ready to finish it; most people react without forethought. By showing you're willing to help calm them down, their anger will deflate. If not, there is a legal recourse--Self-defense. The ShaoLin have an excellent saying: "Avoid Rather Than Check; Check Rather Than Hurt; Hurt Rather Than Maim; Main Rather Than Kill."
Do something nice at least once a day, even if it's completely out of your character. It keeps people who know you guessing.
and YES, I have many friends (male AND female) who respect me for these views.
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